Embrace Abundance by Taking Control, Living Authentically, and Ditching Approval-Seeking 

Are you tired of feeling stuck in the same situation, unable to make any breakthroughs? 

It’s frustrating, isn’t it?

It’s like there’s an invisible obstacle holding you back from creating abundance and living the life you truly desire.

But here’s the thing: feeling stuck and unable to break through is a common experience for many people.

The key to creating an abundant life lies in doing the inner work and healing.

We are all shaped by our past experiences, both as children and as adults.

These experiences influence our beliefs about abundance.

And while it would be great if we could change our beliefs in an instant, it takes time and effort to become aware of the thoughts, habits, and behaviors that hold us back.

But here’s what I believe: the first step to happiness and abundance is taking ownership of your life, regardless of your current circumstances.

Stop blaming others and regretting the past. Understand that you have the power to create your reality.

Any limits you face are simply because you haven’t fully embraced the belief that you can have whatever you want.

It’s important to recognize that most of these limits come from other people and societal expectations.

Whether it’s well-meaning parents or friends who feel threatened by your dreams, we often internalize their limits and beliefs.

I’ve seen it happen so many times.

People get excited about making changes, only to be discouraged by the opinions of others.

But here’s the truth: your life is in your own hands.

You don’t need validation or approval from others.

You have the power to break free from old patterns and attract abundance.

So, what’s the most important thing you can do?

Cultivate faith in yourself.

Stop seeking validation and realize that your life is yours to create.

Don’t let the opinions of others hold you back.

It’s time to step into your true power and make your dreams a reality.

Take a break and journal some answers to the following questions: 

  1. What thoughts am I holding that are keeping me back from what I want? 
  2. Why do I not believe I can have what I want? 
  3. Where in my life am I relying on other people’s approval before I take action towards my dreams?
  4. Am I afraid to experience change? 
  5. In what ways can I create change on an incremental basis? 

If you have a desire or a dream that you feel other people might not fully understand or perhaps you know they will immediately start to talk about the limitations they see or impose their beliefs upon your dream my advice is this –

Keep it to yourself! 

Seriously, imagine it like a tiny baby that you don’t want to expose to the outside world just yet. 

Your dreams and desires are YOURS, and they are VALID. 

You do not need anyone else to validate or approve of them. Keep them secret until you can share them with people who you are sure will be supportive and compassionate. 

In the meantime: 

Empower yourself to believe you can make them a reality.

Cultivate faith in your instinct, in your sense of self, in your innate power. 

Become incredibly discerning about your thoughts and behaviors when it comes to the things you desire. 

Check-in with these points: 

Are you taking action toward your dreams? 

Is your energy in alignment with what you want?

Are you living as if your dream is something that exists only in some magical land where you cannot reach it? 

OR are you able to easily step into the energy of that dream as reality NOW? 

Your life is yours alone to create HOWEVER you choose. 

You have complete control and power over your own experience with every single decision you make in a day.

Decide to tell a new story and to live your best life. 

You are a limitless being in a boundless universe. Own that truth and step into your power today!