Do you have freedom in your life?
Freedom is to do what you want and when you want. You are taking actions that work for yourself.
You have to understand that you will not find the freedom you want by doing what everyone else is doing. In fact, you don’t have to spend your life always chasing the goals that society tells you.
Having freedom allows you to pursue what is really important to you. This allows you to experience the wonderful things this world has to offer. Freedom helps you become the person you were meant to be and build a life you enjoy.
After all, we only have one life.
Here are some ways to help you start reclaiming freedom in your life:
Know Who You Are…Again
When was the last time you sat down and reflected on who you are? How many times have you caught yourself with words when someone asks you, “Tell me who you are.”
The reality is that we don’t spend much time to know who we are when it is essential to live a life of freedom.
I will not deny that it is not difficult, and it can also be painful. But trust me when I say, it’s worth it.
By finding out who you are, you will be able to identify where your happiness lies. Take that risk, because the pain and discomfort that can come from it will help you make the most of your life.
Break Through Your Obstacles
You have self-imposed excuses and limitations. We all do.
Now it’s time to cut them. Again, another hard one to get past because we are convinced that many things we tell ourselves are actually TRUE when if you really examine them, most of them are just excuses.
Go through this thought experiment and let yourself realize what really makes you happy. In order to do this, you need to break the barriers. Take a big step back and free yourself from the daily tasks that take up so much of your life.
By doing so, you will be able to see the entirety of your life and be an unbiased bystander.
Build Your Reality
At this point, you have dropped your limiting beliefs. So, what happens now?
You may find this place scary because almost everything you’re used to is no longer in your life. It’s easy to feel lost and have no idea what to do next.
Before you crumble, this is the time when you dig deep and start building a different reality for yourself. This time, with purposeful action.
It is this time when you have the right reasons when you ask yourself why you are doing something. Gradually fill your life with meaningful things that fulfill you and allow you to achieve things that make you happy.
Don’t Be Afraid To Make Big Decisions
I know, easier said than done, but it’s one of the best ways to live your life as freely as possible. Many people are miserable because they choose comfort over their happiness. They live in their comfort zones, they don’t change for years, and they let things be as they are because they are familiar and comfortable.
Changing your life is a big decision, despite some small changes. There is nothing wrong with making big decisions. Actually, it’s not scary at all. What is scary is the way we think about the negative outcome. We believe that when a big decision doesn’t work, then we’re screwed.
Let us ignore the possibility of what happens if it goes well? And if it doesn’t, there are other options to explore to live the life we want.
To make big decisions, don’t forget the best things that can happen and the other things you can do if it doesn’t happen. From there, you will be able to make significant changes in your life.
Take Action
Whatever happens, you can’t control it, but you can control how you react to it. Controlling what happens outside of you is a total waste of time, and trust me, you’ll only end up disappointed.
What you should do is use the time to prepare yourself to make decisions when good or bad things happen to you.
You should do nothing. Do something that can help you get the freedom you want and start living the life you really want.
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