Have you ever experienced the power of manifestation, where all your wishes seem to magically come true?
It’s an incredible feeling, isn’t it?
But what about the times when you tried to manifest again and nothing seemed to happen?
Frustrating, isn’t it? Well, don’t worry.
There may be a reason why your plans are not happening.
Your energy may be constantly draining and there is a chance that you may be an energy vampire.
This may be hard to admit, but it’s important to take a good, hard look at yourself and how you tend to be around others.
If you suspect you’re an energy vampire, don’t worry.
There are many things you can do to change your behavior and energy.
So, let’s dive into some strong indicators that you may be an energy vampire and how to move forward.
You Tend To Be Cynical With Friends
Do you ever notice yourself being (extra) cynical with your friends?
It’s easy to think you’re only correcting them by providing unsolicited advice about positivity.
You can tell them, “You are too positive,” or something along those lines.
However, even if you think you are just giving your friend a “reality check,” saying things like this, especially if it has become a habit, is not a good thing.
It’s one way to bring people down without realizing it because you think being “realistic” will keep them on their toes.
You Dominate Discussions
Do you find yourself always dominating or guiding the conversation, leading it towards a topic you want to discuss or something you can relate to?
If you are always sticking to your own topics of interest or discounting the positive news that the other person is sharing, you are not hearing what the other person is trying to tell you.
To establish genuine relationships in your life, there needs to be quality conversations that require back and forth.
If you think you’re guilty of this, it’s time to make an effort to be a good listener and really pay attention to what the other person is saying.
You focus the Conversations on yourself
It goes without saying that you need a lot of energy directed at yourself to be an energy vampire.
Therefore, if you or people notice that most of the conversations revolve around yourself, then you are probably an energy vampire.
If you talk about yourself, how you think, how you feel, how your world is, etc., then that is a strong indicator that you are an energy vampire.
Be aware of self-focused trends.
If you only ever talk about your own problems and beliefs and are not asking about the other person, the other person will feel the effects. And trust me, it’s not a good one.
You are overly critical of others
Energy vampires are often insecure, which means they will use dehumanizing strategies to keep the other person insecure as well.
I know it’s not that easy to realize if you’re overly critical of others, but that’s why you have to pay closer attention the moment you notice it about yourself.
If you tend to criticize other people, and sometimes, on a whim, then that’s a strong sign that you’re an energy vampire.
Your Energy is Exhausted
It is easy to feel drained when you have exhausted the energies of those around you.
When you are an energy vampire, it is likely that your closest friends will choose to distance themselves from you.
Therefore, you no longer have the energy to breastfeed, which leaves you exhausted.
When this happens, you feel even more depressed.
Other signs you’re an energy vampire:
- You get mad when your friends say no.
- You find yourself constantly talking when you meet people.
- You constantly need recognition or validation from others.
- She loves gossip and is eager to share it with others.
- Your friends are avoiding you.
- People in your life suddenly stop communicating with you.
- You’ve been told you’re too clingy or emotionally needy.
- You secretly like to create drama or make a big fuss out of nothing.
How to Stop Being an Energy Vampire and Start Manifesting Again?
Yes, you can actually stop being one. Find out how by reading.
The good news is, there are ways to stop being an energy vampire and manifest again.
Commit to healing
Being an energy vampire means you have issues you haven’t healed yet.
To heal, you have to commit to it.
Choose to heal and grow spiritually, mentally and emotionally.
You need to take emotional responsibility for your actions and behavior.
Once you are healed, you can start setting your intentions again.
Be More Aware of Your Traits
Develop self-awareness by making an effort to get to know yourself.
By doing so, it will be easier for you to see the characteristics that make you an energy vampire.
Notice when you feel the emotional impulses, the need to act in the same negative vampiristic patterns.
Start Practicing Being a Good Listener
To be a good listener, you need humility and empathy.
When you listen, you not only hear the words but also are aware of what is not said.
This way, you will be able to identify where you may be starting to crowd others out or not give them space.
Begin your healing process to begin your journey of manifestation
It won’t be easy, but it will be worth it.
